Comments on: how to develop emotional maturity

By: Paul R

Paul R — Tue, 01 Dec 2009 22:36:36 +0000

I’m bothered by the comments by people who confuse emotional maturity with a relationship with god…That is another part of “magical thinking”.

For many years, I prayed and prayed to God for help with my problems, but no help ever came. I realized that by praying, I failed to take responsibility for my own actions, instead relying on something outside of myself to magically fix me. I realized that if God couldn’t help me, then I would have to help myself. If I couldn’t help myself, then I was unhelpable.

By: dr.bindhu

dr.bindhu — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 08:33:28 +0000

Very good useful to all

By: paulo31

paulo31 — Sun, 02 Aug 2009 01:06:00 +0000

that's a very nice work!!!!!
Do well and enjoy doing it……

By: Emotional maturity and stages of development : djchuang.com

Emotional maturity and stages of development : djchuang.com — Fri, 06 Mar 2009 13:36:33 +0000

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By: thony

thony — Tue, 10 Feb 2009 11:02:24 +0000

well said DjChuang. now, how can you educate people with that kind of thinking? i know people who choose to hurt (emotionally) people. even married couples does that to each other. right?! any suggestion?

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emotional maturity and depression : djchuang.com — Wed, 04 Feb 2009 03:57:55 +0000

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By: djchuang

djchuang — Tue, 03 Feb 2009 01:35:45 +0000

@anthony, yes, my family name is Chuang. My Dad comes from the province of Fujian.

As for eliminating magical thinking, I think it has something to do with having a reality check. We have to get rid of overly idealistic thinking and realize how things work in the real world, and how things don't work. (This is not to say we don't pursue dreams.)

By: anthony

anthony — Mon, 02 Feb 2009 21:38:34 +0000

Sir can anyone please explain “Eliminate Magical Thinking”. thanks.

By: anthony

anthony — Mon, 02 Feb 2009 21:29:15 +0000

hi DJ Chuang! very very nice! all i need now is to practice. by the way mr Chuang. my family name is also Chuang. is that your family name too?

By: anthony

anthony — Sat, 31 Jan 2009 02:13:24 +0000

nice. i really need this.

By: M. Neuman

M. Neuman — Fri, 23 Jan 2009 13:16:30 +0000

Good information. Thank you!

By: emotional immaturity vs. emotional maturity : djchuang.com

emotional immaturity vs. emotional maturity : djchuang.com — Fri, 02 Jan 2009 05:12:28 +0000

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By: emotional intelligence and emotional maturity : djchuang.com

emotional intelligence and emotional maturity : djchuang.com — Sat, 29 Nov 2008 17:45:08 +0000

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By: how emotionally maturity is connected to spiritual maturity : djchuang.com

how emotionally maturity is connected to spiritual maturity : djchuang.com — Sun, 16 Nov 2008 20:11:04 +0000

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